I had lunch with Rob yesterday at the Hauf. (He and his wife Megan are doing well. (Good for them.))
After work yesterday, I went to the Scoop with Ron. (I ran into a few people I know there and visited with them.) (One guy told me that, if I do his tax return for free, he will line me up with some beautician for a week. (Sounds like a fair deal.)) (I also ran into Caroline and Ryan and visited with them for awhile.)
Then dinner.
Then I went over and bs'd with Samantha for awhile.
Nice nite.
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(8am) I went down to The Cannery again last nite with Ron and bs'd some more with him.
Then to 4-b's for dinner. (I ran into an artist friend of mine there and he showed me a bunch of his sketches and we visited.) (Reggie was working, and I flirted with her a bit. (She says she is coming over to Missoula soon, so I gave her my card and told her to give me a call.)-(She pointed to her nametag, and told me not to forget her name.)-(Tis nice knowing I am still capable of flirting a little.)-(And, it had been a long time since I had tried asking someone out.)-(She sure has neat eyes.))
I met Samantha at the motel after dinner. (We swam in the pool and then soaked in the Jacuzzi. (That felt good.)) (After that we went to the Scoop and shot pool with Caroline and Ryan.)
Then I crashed and burned.
Nice nite.
(4pm) Tis dog time back to Missoula again.
Joke from a woman friend: How are women like cow pies? The older they get, the easier they are to pick up.
I got off at two, so I went to the Paw to wait for the bus. (I shot some pool, caught a bourbon buzz, won $23 on the poker machines, and bs'd with Martin and Kitty. (I would still like to spend a nite with Kitty. (I would bet she is a lot of fun.))
Tis cold here today and they are even talking about snow. (Brr.)
Carrie has commented several times that the first time with a new lover is best. (I wonder if, in part at least, it could relate to defense mechanisms? (Maybe, as a relationship extends through time and the people begin to grow closer, the fear of intimacy kicks in and causes them to start building up walls, and becoming too uptight for spontaneity to exist anymore? (?) (I don't have much experience, so I can't really say.))) (Sex was always good with my ex, but then we did it a lot of different places, ways and times.) (I will have to work on getting out and collecting more experience.)