No word from my lawyer, so I guess there isn't going to be a settlement with my ex. (Sad!)
(7pm) Ross called looking for Carly. (He says he hardly ever sees her. (She gets home late from work and goes to bed early.)) (Her dad sent money for a vcr and Ross is excited about that.) (It makes me a bit nervous when a husband calls me looking for his wandering wife!)
12-22-90
(4pm) Carly stopped by. (She called Ross as soon as she got her and again when she was leaving. (She has to check in and out with Ross now.)-(She says he is getting really jealous and is constantly accusing her of having affairs.)) (When she called the second time he wanted to talk to me. (We bs’d about work and computers a bit.)) (She says he is lonely and has talked about suicide.) (She thinks he should see a shrink.) (She says she has stopped being honest with him, because he just uses anything she tells him to attack her later.) (No trust, no emotional intimacy and not much physical intimacy. (Not a bright picture!)) (It sounds like they need some marriage counseling!) (She says she has some time off now and she is going to party. (Ross has to work so she has some time to play.))
12-23-90
(1pm) Happy birthday to my sister!
I got myself some new music for Xmas. (I had to short the phone and power companies, but I need to do something nice for myself.)
It finally got above zero outside.
12-24-90
(6am) There isn’t any hot water this morning. (Frustrating!)
Tis sure snowing hard!
(4pm) They closed down City Hall early. (Cool!)
My dad sent some money. (I got some more music, blank tapes and winter clothes.) (Nice!)
(7pm) I ordered a pizza. (Yum!)
12-25-90
(7am) Merry Xmas!
I got some shirts and sweat pants from Erica and Miranda for Xmas. (My wardrobe is growing.)
(2pm) My sister and dad called. (It sounds like they are having a good day! (Good for them!)) (It sounds like my dad is into the idea of retirement. (Get away from the stress, do some farming, and hopefully do some traveling.)) (He says he sent Bryan some money for Xmas, but he hasn’t heard from them.)
(9pm) Quiet day of reading here. (Nice!)